<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post9069129943832393071..comments</id><updated>2010-03-24T07:13:13.090-04:00</updated><category term='moving'/><category term='road trip'/><category term='audacity'/><category term='movies'/><category term='books'/><category term='change'/><category term='celebrating'/><category term='relationships'/><category term='art'/><category term='stalking'/><category term='poll'/><category term='getting unstuck'/><category term='conference'/><category term='aging'/><category term='risk'/><category term='inspiration'/><category term='literary journal'/><category term='NaNoWriMo'/><category term='travel'/><category term='overheard in new york'/><category term='MFA'/><category term='clutter'/><category term='family'/><category term='celebrity'/><category term='Taos'/><category term='procrastination'/><category term='freelance'/><category term='new york'/><category term='work'/><category term='teaching'/><category term='friends'/><category term='creative life'/><category term='terror'/><category term='feminism'/><category term='transition'/><category term='politics'/><category term='random'/><category term='music'/><category term='goals'/><category term='gratitude'/><category term='crabbiness'/><category term='laziness'/><category term='blog'/><category term='decisions'/><category term='publishing'/><category term='interview'/><category term='funk and not the good kind'/><category term='criticism'/><category term='food'/><category term='coping'/><category term='queens college'/><category term='editing'/><category term='men'/><category term='desperation'/><category term='love'/><category term='health'/><category term='writing'/><category term='money'/><title type='text'>Comments on Life on the High Wire: I’ve Only Been Asked to Leave Once</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/feeds/9069129943832393071/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html'/><author><name>deonne kahler</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_rHCieASnTDk/TOPmoVZIqRI/AAAAAAAAALs/EU7G2ntSWF8/S220/Serious%2Bheadshot.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-3337854707822426807</id><published>2009-11-06T07:22:46.343-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-06T07:22:46.343-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Kathy - Great comment. I&amp;#39;m with you, I&amp;#39;d r...</title><content type='html'>Kathy - Great comment. I&amp;#39;m with you, I&amp;#39;d rather leave my options open than stay put, but perhaps at the expense of community or relationships. I struggle with it, but I obviously value roots less because I&amp;#39;ve never let geography constrain me. Sounds like it&amp;#39;s the same for you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(I&amp;#39;m crossing my fingers for you and Kauai!)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/3337854707822426807'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/3337854707822426807'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html?showComment=1257510166343#c3337854707822426807' title=''/><author><name>deonne kahler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11507714492188577969</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_rHCieASnTDk/SG4UHhDNo7I/AAAAAAAAABQ/-D-PDqX50H4/S220/deonne+kahler+lighter.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-9069129943832393071' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/posts/default/9069129943832393071' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1323553150'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-6704080326595557354</id><published>2009-11-05T22:20:22.700-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-05T22:20:22.700-05:00</updated><title type='text'>a friend recently said to me &amp;quot;don&amp;#39;t you w...</title><content type='html'>a friend recently said to me &amp;quot;don&amp;#39;t you want any roots?&amp;quot; i replied, &amp;quot;it&amp;#39;s not that i don&amp;#39;t want roots. i&amp;#39;m just open to the opportunities that arise in my life.&amp;quot; and if an opportunity to move to kauai to start my own business presents itself to me, who am i to turn that down?! especially if it&amp;#39;s my life&amp;#39;s purpose and passion.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/6704080326595557354'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/6704080326595557354'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html?showComment=1257477622700#c6704080326595557354' title=''/><author><name>kathy barron</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152597061488060674</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='06840543955851590023'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-9069129943832393071' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/posts/default/9069129943832393071' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-48101911'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-8274841193164286973</id><published>2009-11-03T14:20:13.044-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-03T14:20:13.044-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It makes me wonder what might come next, what I&amp;#3...</title><content type='html'>It makes me wonder what might come next, what I&amp;#39;ll bloom into later on. Now I&amp;#39;m perfectly happy as a writer and teacher, but might that change? Or maybe it will always be those two things, but in different forms? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I was a singer/songwriter I knew I wouldn&amp;#39;t do that forever, and the same with my businesses. But writing and teaching feel like vocations I could happily spend the rest of my life doing. The challenge and satisfaction of both seem never ending.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/8274841193164286973'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/8274841193164286973'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html?showComment=1257276013044#c8274841193164286973' title=''/><author><name>deonne kahler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11507714492188577969</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_rHCieASnTDk/SG4UHhDNo7I/AAAAAAAAABQ/-D-PDqX50H4/S220/deonne+kahler+lighter.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-9069129943832393071' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/posts/default/9069129943832393071' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1323553150'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-1115962460734230436</id><published>2009-11-03T02:10:03.643-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-03T02:10:03.643-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It&amp;#39;s been a long and tortuous road for me to g...</title><content type='html'>It&amp;#39;s been a long and tortuous road for me to get to this very good place in my life. Two years ago, on my 45 birthday, my little sister gave me a painting with an e.e. cummings quote on it: &amp;quot;It takes courage to grow up to become who you really are.&amp;quot; That about sums it up - I don&amp;#39;t really mind so much that it took me this long. I&amp;#39;m just grateful that I&amp;#39;m here.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/1115962460734230436'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/1115962460734230436'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html?showComment=1257232203643#c1115962460734230436' title=''/><author><name>Michelle Wing</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10517361156145245696</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-9069129943832393071' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/posts/default/9069129943832393071' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-535922328'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-3992075395033009471</id><published>2009-11-02T16:18:00.271-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T16:18:00.271-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Great post! I so relate.</title><content type='html'>Great post! I so relate.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/3992075395033009471'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/3992075395033009471'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html?showComment=1257196680271#c3992075395033009471' title=''/><author><name>Wendy Nelson Tokunaga</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03529294803049232598</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aeeG0up9DI0/ScbfMEppcdI/AAAAAAAAAJ8/0SEefVRO4Io/S220/WendyB%26w.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-9069129943832393071' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/posts/default/9069129943832393071' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1248651064'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-7055737088588750699</id><published>2009-11-02T15:54:15.781-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T15:54:15.781-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;m definitely a late bloomer. Christopher Moo...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m definitely a late bloomer. Christopher Moore&amp;#39;s author bio says something like, &amp;quot;I&amp;#39;m the world&amp;#39;s oldest child prodigy.&amp;quot; I wrote my first story when I was five, and I worked in publishing for years, but it&amp;#39;s been just in the past three years that I have really focused on writing. Half the challenge is making the time for it, not allowing the daily drivel (or even occasional major drivel) to get in the way.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/7055737088588750699'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/7055737088588750699'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html?showComment=1257195255781#c7055737088588750699' title=''/><author><name>Susan Mihalic</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-9069129943832393071' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/posts/default/9069129943832393071' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1253528525'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-2517160602088461704</id><published>2009-11-02T15:35:16.680-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T15:35:16.680-05:00</updated><title type='text'>LOL@&amp;quot;adorable, tiny royalties.&amp;quot;

Greg Ki...</title><content type='html'>LOL@&amp;quot;adorable, tiny royalties.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Greg Kihn (remember &amp;quot;Our Love&amp;#39;s in Jeopardy&amp;quot; back in the &amp;#39;80s?) is now a morning drive-time DJ on KFOX in San Jose (&amp;quot;KFOX 98.5, the classic rock experience&amp;quot;).  He refers to those royalties as &amp;quot;mailbox money.&amp;quot;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/2517160602088461704'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/9069129943832393071/comments/default/2517160602088461704'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html?showComment=1257194116680#c2517160602088461704' title=''/><author><name>Deborah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00867648882290627985</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lifeonthehighwire.com/2009/11/ive-only-been-asked-to-leave-once.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1664775245527943341.post-9069129943832393071' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1664775245527943341/posts/default/9069129943832393071' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1225424503'/></entry></feed>
