Last week we talked about the baby steps that add up, and in the financial realm that can be brown-bagging your lunch or canceling cable. But if you want to make a lasting impact on your financial independence, you have to also tackle the big expenses, and I’m guessing your biggest one is housing. (Please don’t say it’s cocaine, because that will just make me sad.)
This might seem totally wackadoo, but the best financial move you can make for the long term is this:
Get rid of your housing payment.
Put that keyboard down and hear me out. I don’t mean this month or next year or even in five years. I’m talking about making this the One Giant Financial Goal of Your Life. You could be like Sisyphus finally pushing that boulder over the top of the mountain. Pure freedom.
If you’re young and/or renting, this concept might seem especially ridiculous. But I was once young and renting, and I did it. I had a big hit of luck that made my story move a lot faster, but the basic premise is the same.
My First House
I lived in the Bay Area for almost 15 years, and toward the end had built a successful consulting business. (I was in my early-30s.) I worked all the time and was making more money than I ever had, which still wasn’t a lot, but for me it was plenty. I was tired of paying rent and knew it was now or never, so I held my breath and jumped into the insane Bay Area real estate market.I ran the numbers to see how much mortgage I could afford, which wasn’t much in that overpriced market, so I bought a tiny, cute house in a decent neighborhood in Oakland, and took out a 15-year mortgage, which meant a slightly higher monthly payment but way less interest paid over the term of the loan.
LESSON: Give yourself a budget (mine was 33% of my income) and stick to it. Don’t buy the best house, buy a pretty good house. (I would have loved a stylish condo in the city, but it was out of my price range.)
I fixed up my little bungalow and hung on for five years as the neighborhood improved, then hired a fantastic real estate agent and sold. For a lot more than I paid.
(The insane Bay Area real estate market is the part that sped up my story, but even if it would have taken a lot longer, my steps would have been the same. And I didn’t make a million bucks or anything – this isn’t that great of a story.)
LESSON: Do the work yourself, be patient, and find experts to help you.
My Second House
Now I was ready to get out of the Bay Area and move to Taos (with its much cheaper housing market). What I didn’t do was take the money and say, Well, I could buy an even nicer house and have a regular-sized mortgage. Nothing extravagant, maybe a couple hundred thousand. It’s the American way, for crying out loud! It wouldn’t kill me, I’d just have to work full-time, but look at the place I could get! In fact, I’m sure I need those steam showers and extra bedrooms! I do! Because I might have a party and everyone will want to sleep over! And take a steam shower!I looked at one place in the mountains that was big, with all the extras, on five acres. I drooled openly. I looked at a gorgeous smaller house in town where I could walk to the Plaza and the grocery store and my beloved Taos Inn. After putting a lot of money down I still would have had a “reasonable” mortgage. Wasn’t it worth it to have a gorgeous house with all the trimmings?
No. It wasn’t.
I ended up buying a very nice, but modest, house north of town. It’s got a terrible road and schizophrenic internet and phone access. I have fantastic neighbors and the house is just big enough. And I don’t have a mortgage.
(Again – put the keyboard down. It can be done.)
LESSON: Stick to your budget! Go for less than you think you can afford.
This is getting long, so I’ll try to wrap up. Even if you’re a in a normal, non-Bay Area housing market and starting from scratch, here’s what you can do:
1. Buy a house you can afford. Consider buying even less house than you can afford.
2. Take out a 15-year mortgage.
3. Throw all your extra cash at the payment. Even if you put an extra $100 in every month, you can reduce those 15 years by a big chunk.
4. Make that last payment and either live there as long as you want, or sell the house and buy something else free and clear. Voila. No housing payment.
I’m simplifying, but not by much, and obviously, there are a lot of baby steps involved here, too. If you’re not ready to buy yet – you’ve got other debt to pay off first, you haven’t saved enough for a down payment – this will take longer. Everything worthwhile takes time. And if you already have a house, consider refinancing to a 15-year and at the very least, pick up on step 3 above.
And before you complain that my story is one in a million, it’s not. I know other people that have done this – different situations, same end result. Same freedom to pursue a Life on the High Wire. What do you think?


7 comments:
Excellent advice. Remember our first house in Santee? We really outgrew it before we even had kids, but it was in a decent neighborhood and cost considerably less than what we "qualified" for. We did that because we were scared we wouldn't be able to make the payments if we stretched ourselves too thin. Part of the beauty of being raised by Depression-era parents was the outlook on money, to wit: there could be another Depression someday, so don't be wasteful with the money you have. - Deb
Wow. Buying a house! Very inspiring.
Could you write a post about starting your own business and freelancing? The starting seems so tough.
I agree that lowering your housing payment helps keep you living the high wire NOW, but I think it is ultra-important to remember that buying up and increasing the value of your house should not be just for the niceties you enjoy while you live in it. It is an investment- even with everything going on, it is STILL the best investment there is, and the break on your taxes adds in as well.
To me, part of living life on the high wire is making sure I don't have to live an anxious life worrying about retirement. If I have a home, the more I can sell it for at the end means the less I have to sock away for retirement now.
We're working on it, Deonne. It's a little difficult in the early years. We don't have a lot of extras, especially with 2 kids and the economy and jobs 'n such. And right now, we've actually lost equity in our home. But I agree with your line of thinking whole-heartedly. We will get there!
I don't believe it. I can't. I'm totally in awe. Here I'm thinking, your 28 years old at best and from doing the math... Ummm let me see first house carry the one, second house.... Ohhh what women wants to hear her age guessed, and especially if it has nothing to do with the topic of no house payments and flipping your early property.
I added half round shingles on top of my existing shingles, just this past week. Now my little cottage by the sea has a little Gingerbread flare to it.
Part of my purchases over the years to accomplish this was a 24 foot extension ladder with leveling feet, two-tank 5 gallon Air Compressor, and a nail Gun. The labor was accomplished by myself saving, I'm guessing $4500.00 . My expenses were the Air Compressor at $300., Nail Gun from a retired carpenter tag sale in Brand New Condition, $19., The ladder at Sherwin Williams $149. The bonus and inspiration for the shingling effort lies in the fact that the shingles were given to me for free from my neighbors, who lived a bit down the street. They were taking up space in the garage and didn't have the heart to throw them out. Side note: our dogs play together.
I just can't believe your not 28, this seriously effects my view of Life on the
High Wire directly out of a Masters in college, you have years of Life Experience. Priceless.
Well, thats life on the surface. Another good way to save for those trips abroad or intercontinental: make things for yourself or have a local artisan give you lessons. I had a Local Metal sculpture let me borrow his drill press which allowed me to finish building a fence for my yard. His words to me were, I believe its all about Karma Rob, I help you, you may help someone else because of that. He went on to say he was on his yacht stuck on a sand barge in the Bahamas, and out of nowhere someone came and tugged him safely back out to deeper waters.
Moral: Deeper Waters are maybe where you want to be. Jump in feet first is always good advice.
Thanks for sharing your advice and stories!
Jtron - I'll do a post about how to start freelancing/go self-employed soon.
Cindy - saving for retirement is important, and everyone has their own priorities and timing. In a perfect world you'd be able to throw an extra $100 at that (reasonable) mortgage AND save a bit every month. I still maintain that getting that house paid off, so at the very least you'll always have a place to live, is key.
Alena - I know that this harsh economy and providing for a family makes it tougher. But it sounds like you're chipping away at it, and my primary point is if you keep your eye on the goal, you'll get there. It's not a fast process, but at least you're pointed in the right direction.
Tusk - you've outed me. I am, in fact, 87. Viva Botox!
Thanks for the kind words, Barbara, and welcome!
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